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Closure

The Truth About Getting Closure With A Narcissist

by Bree Bonchay, LCSW | Dec 17, 2016 | 6 Comments

The concept of closure means different things to people. We can't see it, touch it, or even agree on exactly what it is, but so many survivors of narcissistic abuse hang their whole relationship recovery on getting it. Unfortunately, you never get anything that...

The “Good” In “Goodbye”

by Bree Bonchay, LCSW | May 25, 2015 | 23 Comments

We've all heard the adage, "Life is a delicate balance of learning when to hold on and when to let go." More times than not, we're reminded of this, when facing a turning point in our lives. Change is the only constant in life. It is a necessary component of any...

Closing The Door On Closure

by Bree Bonchay, LCSW | Apr 20, 2015 | 29 Comments

Someone who is capable of leaving you without a real heart to heart talk lacks empathy and is manipulative. Some people, most often those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Narcissistic traits, purposely leave relationships denying their partners the decency and respect of closure. Why? It boils down to one thing and one thing only: Control.